Is dating the life of the party a bad idea? The life of the party (LOTP) always looks good physically, is exciting, and happy. The LOTP most likely has great social skills, impresses family members well, craves social interaction with groups, and is emotionally appealing on the surface. The downside of the LOTP is that they are on full speed ahead while in public, and not many people have the energy to keep up at this pace during all their waking hours. The LOTP is most likely more introverted at
Getting over the fantasy of dating someone takes a little bit of time, so be compassionate with yourself, and know that your assumptions about how she/he would be to date is exactly that, an assumption. It’s likely you are fantasizing about what you think dating, or marriage, would be like with this person. Unfortunately she/he doesn’t have the same feelings that you do. Don’t take the rejection personally. A split is better happening sooner than later, before you have more emotions and time invested with this person. The sooner you
