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December 2020

By Judy Sekinger December 30, 2020 in Breakups, Closure, Communication, Dating, Goals, Love, Mental Health, Relationship, Responsibility No Comments

Dating Investment

Ready to invest in dating?   This investment is your time, not your money. Realistically, are you able to free up a part of your schedule in the beginning to get to know this new potential partner? Realistically, you’re going to need to free more time during the entire dating process.  And, dating is a numbers game depending on the experience of the dater.  You’ll most likely spend a few months together and happily hop your own ways, dating some more to find your life partner, or dating for what other

By Judy Sekinger December 19, 2020 in Dating, Goals, Love, Mental Health, Relationship No Comments

Let your attraction type change organically

Still dating or attracted to the same type of person? Take a dating break.  No serial dating. Don’t try to date a different type….just don’t date that type of person anymore, and see the new type of person comes towards you.  You need to be eyes wide open to recognize the change, and this will take a little bit of time. You’ll be pleasantly surprised.

By Judy Sekinger December 17, 2020 in Arguing, Communication, Lifestyle, Mental Health, Relationship, Responsibility, Stress No Comments

Run, don’t walk.

Run, don’t walk! Whether it’s co-workers, family members, friends, a person walking with their dog through the park, negative people’s attitude will enter your vibe and throw you off course to your greatness.  Keep your distance from these people. Look how far Forrest Gump went, he was successful because he is so pure of heart.  And boy could he run. Run don’t walk!

By Judy Sekinger December 15, 2020 in Arguing, Breakups, Communication, Dating, Love, Mental Health, Relationship, Stress No Comments

Rejection, it’s most likely not your fault

Rejection is really tough to take, and we’ve all been rejected at one time or another in a relationship or simply by someone we’d like to get to know. 🙂 That other person is looking for his or her match…whatever that match may be.  Yes, it’s personal, but don’t take it personally.  Be sure to ask for a sound explanation, and remember that persons expanation for refection at a later time.  You’ll see that the break-up was probably for a good reason. You have to go through the emotional shock

By Judy Sekinger December 12, 2020 in Dating, Goals, Lifestyle, Love, Mental Health, Relationship No Comments

Dating: Ready or Not?

Prepare yourself to be ready to meet a nice person and date….really be ready. If you feel like you need to get into better shape, mentally disable the past relationships, shave more often, lol, what ever it is to get your self ready, get ready! Believe it or not, there are a lot of truly great people out there that want to meet and be in a long term relationship, and it’s not fair to them if you waste their time, especially mental time, because you cannot move forward with

By Judy Sekinger December 9, 2020 in Uncategorized No Comments

Frog or Prince?

What type of relationship do you want? Committed or just for immediate companionship? #sex #fun If it’s a committed relationship, you’ll need to decide if he’s the Frog or the Prince. If he’s the Frog, the quicker you break the relationship off, the better for both of you.  On to the next!  And the same goes for the guys. If you think he’s the Prince, then you’ll need to watch for signs that you are his Princess.  Remember, all is fair in love & war while dating. Signs that he’s

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