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April 2021

Nope, you never have too many vibrators.  Says who?  Whoever wants to! What ladies and gentlemen do need to watch is the ratio of toy only time with partner only time, or toy with partner time.  Why?  When using a vibrator, or such, and driven by your own touch, this is easily navigated for great pleasure.  This is great, except ya gotta be careful not to get so utterly use to this because it can worsen your chances of pleasure with your partner.  Yes, this is a thing (topic).  Go for the

Ever wonder why you keep thinking about your ex all the time…those fond memories?   Our common sense protective instincts that usually protect and serve us in a physical trauma aren’t used when your heart is broken…    When your heart is broken your thoughts go down a different path, heart ache causes such dramatic emotional pain, and even when we are given a very logical reason why that person broke up with us (damn it!) we make up mysteries and other theories when there are none.  We cannot trust what

Ladies: A man truly in love will let almost nothing stop him from being with you. You will never have to guess if someone is into you. If you do, it’s either because it’s too early to tell or because he just plain isn’t. Don’t keep being so available…live your life. Men:  You can control the zipper, too.  She’s not responsive enough?  Hey, it’s too early, or she just may not be feeling it.…meaning you. Either way, don’t sell your self short and certainly don’t play games.  Guaranteed , that you’ll

I’ve seen this over and over again, and I was reminded again…..ugh….not in my personal life, for the record only.  One of the greatest ways to kill romance, or any chance of romance in your relationship, is to leave a mess in your home for your partner to live with and clean up after. And while I’d like to say that you are simply a slob and don’t know any better, I’m calling your B.S.  You’re an adult, get your crap together or get out. This passive aggressive move is

“Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder”  While this phrase can be depicted in many ways, both positive and negative/derogatory, this is my dating insight blog goof ball, so let’s take a quick dive my way! Beauty does come from within, and while dating, some people will think you’re beautiful and some will not.  Yes, they will not think you’re the most beautiful or handsome person and you will need to get past this truth.  So, guys and gals of all ages when you’re getting ready for your date,

In a relationship do you have a ball & chain or are YOU the ball & chain?  I see this happening many, many times in a relationship.  In the beginning stages of dating, usually both people begin the relationship with an independent life and attitude.  And as time goes on, one of the two people slowly makes sacrifices in their own life to spend more time with their new partner.  What happens?  Their daily routine follows their partners schedule, and before they know it, Voila!  Now, not only do they lose a sense