Don’t do it.
Never make your partner an option. If you do, they’ll show you how many options they have.
Ladies, before you’ve met in person, and if he’s treating you like the stranger that you are, there should be no kissy face emoji, love texting, texting how beautiful that you are, etc. There should be no flirtation. If he is, then he’s a fake. There should be no show or illusion of intimacy You’ve not met yet and there is no chemistry, no concrete commonality, or true attraction. He should be polite and want to meet with you, be in the moment, and experience the person that you are.
Your partner really needs to feel needed. Why? Because it’s a great feeling for them and your partner will feel more attraction for you! So ladies (or men), ask for some help. “Hey, can you pump my bicycle tire….pleeeease? I can’t get the cap off the valve.” This is the one time it’s OK to fake it ladies. 🙂
