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Judy Sekinger

This has always been a manta in my life:  Action = Reaction   Do the right thing, and you’ll most likely get a good result.   A negative action, and you’ll probably get repercussions in one direction or another.  My kids can attest to this.  And Zella dog?  She knows via training, that there will be a leash if she doesn’t walk with me.  Got kids?  Your relationship?  It’s up to you….the truth always comes out later or sooner 😉

I love a good talk show while driving, and I’ll share a few fav’s sometime.  I was surprised to understand that there are seven, YES 7!!!, types of orgasms for women. 🙂  WooHoo we hit the jackpot.  Ever notice how some O’s are more intense than others?  Well, here’s the menu: Clitorial, Nipple, G-Spot, The Anal, Urethral, A-Spot, and Vaginal. Guys, just because your gal didn’t react, #screamwithdelight, doesn’t mean she isn’t pleasured and satisfied.

New date coming up gals?  A great way to feel comfortable is to dress comfortable and wear what you like.  Stiletto’s?  Hell yeah if you can walk the walk, but don’t wear them on a first date if you’ll be hunched over with sore feet in the first hour.  Be yourself, dress like yourself, and enjoy yourself.  You’ll be perfectly perfect.   And if the spark isn’t there, that’s okay….there’s nothing you can do to create true chemistry.  On to the next date….for both of you.

Years ago, when my babies were babies, I’d pull them in the red wagon, turn around and say, “someday you’ll be pulling me in the wagon.” <3  They were baffled because “mommy, you’re too big!” Fast forward almost 30 years later, my Millennials are smarter and faster with the same core values. And now, I can count on them for tech, travel, fitness, and financial advice.  Pay now, or pay later.

Stumbled across this quaint ivy covered old house with a vivid blue sky, and what you can’t see is an alley below full of garbage cans and cinder filled brick pavers with overgrown grass and weeds.    Looking down was not so beautiful, but gazing up was extraordinary. Look down or gaze up!?!

Stress Free

Stressed???   Make your best decisions, sit back, do your best and stay motivated.  “It” will go the right direction even if the direction isn’t what you expected.  There’s a reason for this, unknown at the time.  Hang on for the ride and you’ll see your life change and evolve for the better…just you wait and see! The longer you hang on to the old, the longer until you’ll see the new. If your situation is just too much to handle on your own, seek professional help.

  Only YOU can prevent wild fires! Visiting San Diego for a few days, and of course I’m excited to be outside on my laptop, which unfortunately is collecting ash from the most recent fire.  Eight people lost lives at this moment, animals with nowhere to go, people fleeing their homes. We are all responsible for our actions. Prevent Forest Fires.

For all those married men out there that are thinking about cheating on your wife, ya better think twice bud. What I, and my dear friend Stacy in Cali have seen, that at a later age, let’s use 48+, women are much happier single than men. Dude, pull up your bootstraps, walk in the front door, say honey I’m home, kiss her on the lips, and enjoy what you have. The grass is not greener on the other side and I can almost guarantee you that you’ll be unhappy later

Sex

I’ll touch that! Great for your mind and body. If you don’t have anyone special in your life at the moment, love yourself.

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