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By Judy Sekinger May 7, 2021 in Communication, Dating, Lifestyle, Love, Relationship, Responsibility No Comments

Approaches

  When it comes to communicating, women have a more emotional approach to communicating than men.  On the other hand, men have a much more logical communication approach than women. So if women can communicate in a logical way to men, this should help him understand what you need on an emotional level, and that’s a win-win! And men, ya gotta understand how this works for many women, too.  Pulling out the crazy card doesn’t work anymore. Communication can lead to foreplay, which leads to intimacy on a deeper level.  

By Judy Sekinger April 28, 2021 in Foreplay, Mental Health, Responsibility, Sex, Stress No Comments

Too many toys?

Nope, you never have too many vibrators.  Says who?  Whoever wants to! What ladies and gentlemen do need to watch is the ratio of toy only time with partner only time, or toy with partner time.  Why?  When using a vibrator, or such, and driven by your own touch, this is easily navigated for great pleasure.  This is great, except ya gotta be careful not to get so utterly use to this because it can worsen your chances of pleasure with your partner.  Yes, this is a thing (topic).  Go for the

By Judy Sekinger April 27, 2021 in Breakups, Closure, Communication, Dating, Mental Health, Relationship, Responsibility, Stress No Comments

Fixing A Broken Heart

Ever wonder why you keep thinking about your ex all the time…those fond memories?   Our common sense protective instincts that usually protect and serve us in a physical trauma aren’t used when your heart is broken…    When your heart is broken your thoughts go down a different path, heart ache causes such dramatic emotional pain, and even when we are given a very logical reason why that person broke up with us (damn it!) we make up mysteries and other theories when there are none.  We cannot trust what

By Judy Sekinger April 11, 2021 in Arguing, Breakups, Communication, Dating, Foreplay, Lifestyle, Mental Health, Relationship, Responsibility, Stress No Comments

Foreplay, not.

I’ve seen this over and over again, and I was reminded again…..ugh….not in my personal life, for the record only.  One of the greatest ways to kill romance, or any chance of romance in your relationship, is to leave a mess in your home for your partner to live with and clean up after. And while I’d like to say that you are simply a slob and don’t know any better, I’m calling your B.S.  You’re an adult, get your crap together or get out. This passive aggressive move is

By Judy Sekinger April 6, 2021 in Breakups, Communication, Dating, Goals, Lifestyle, Relationship, Responsibility, Uncategorized No Comments

Ball & Chain

In a relationship do you have a ball & chain or are YOU the ball & chain?  I see this happening many, many times in a relationship.  In the beginning stages of dating, usually both people begin the relationship with an independent life and attitude.  And as time goes on, one of the two people slowly makes sacrifices in their own life to spend more time with their new partner.  What happens?  Their daily routine follows their partners schedule, and before they know it, Voila!  Now, not only do they lose a sense

By Judy Sekinger March 23, 2021 in Dating, Goals, Lifestyle, Mental Health, Responsibility, Sex No Comments

Ladies, keep your legs crossed

My Parents, what we put them through as teenager’s once we were allowed to begin dating!  I have 3 siblings and we all looked alike. The only male is the oldest…lucky him….or his life would’ve been much different.   If my math is correct, there were four children in five years, and I must say we had a very fun home growing up.  When I entered high school in the Pittsburgh area, I walked down the hall as an insecure freshman, and the teachers would stop and say that I was

By Judy Sekinger February 21, 2021 in Arguing, Breakups, Cheating, Communication, Dating, Mental Health, Relationship, Responsibility, Stress No Comments

Liar, Liar Pants on Fire

Remember that phrase from your younger years, and if you’re lucky enough to be blessed with children, are your kids using this phrase?  I remember the one time I was caught in a lie as a child, I let the hamster out of the cage to run around the room and voila,  he disappeared.  There weren’t any of my three siblings around, and of course they wouldn’t take the blame anyway.  Yup, caught in a lie and for me as a child this was traumatic.  I didn’t get spanked or

By Judy Sekinger February 9, 2021 in Communication, Dating, Goals, Lifestyle, Love, Relationship, Responsibility No Comments

Standards

Are friends and family telling you that you’re too picky because you’re not dating or  because you can’t find your person?  Dating Rule #007:  Don’t listen to other peoples negative opinions.  Whether you want the prince or the hooker, do what your inner self is telling you. Hold tight to your standards and don’t give them up.  Your person will come in front of you at some point, making the journey well worth the wait.  You’re the cherry on the top of that tree…why spend time with someone picking up

By Judy Sekinger January 21, 2021 in Breakups, Closure, Communication, Dating, Lifestyle, Mental Health, Relationship, Responsibility No Comments

Taking the breakup personally?

How do you not take it personally when someone doesn’t want to see you anymore, or when your issues just aren’t on the same page?  Well, look at it this way:  They did you a favor by letting you go so you can find the better match that is for you.  I wanted to say perfect match, but there really isn’t a perfect, although there is a really, really great match for you out there. Ya gotta get through the breakup, whether it’s after two dates or two years, and

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