I really don’t watch much TV, but I had it on last week from the nightly news to catch up on the beautiful people and country of Ukraine…and I am praying for their peace. A few hours later I walked by the TV and saw The Bachelor, and thought I should see what’s going on, well, because I’m kinda interested in the dating arena. Classic ending that I could’ve guessed and here’s why: Two women (of the three left) were very emotionally hurt because they slept with him before they
Take a REAL look at what’s going on in your dating situation. Rather than getting super emotional, #crying #whinning, take a step back and regroup. Look at what your dating situation really is: He/She isn’t respecting you or your feelings. YOU are perfectly perfect and you need to run, not walk, to your Happy Healthy Relationship. This is for guys as well as the ladies. *Note: If you think you can stay for your own gain, you’re mistaken. You’re wasting you’re well-being and adding stress to your life.
Don’t make him a priority if he makes you an option. Same goes for you, guys!
This one’s for the guys: Make your date feel comfortable and safe in the beginning of your courtship. This way she’ll be able to open up and be in her best feminine. Enjoy, and you can thank me later!
Ladies, the more a man likes you the slower he’ll move forward. Why? He moves forward with a relationship more carefully because he has something important to lose….you! This slower progression probably means that he’s very interested in you in a serious way. Be patient and enjoy.
Yep, yes, absolutely!
Don’t do it.
Never make your partner an option. If you do, they’ll show you how many options they have.
Ladies, before you’ve met in person, and if he’s treating you like the stranger that you are, there should be no kissy face emoji, love texting, texting how beautiful that you are, etc. There should be no flirtation. If he is, then he’s a fake. There should be no show or illusion of intimacy You’ve not met yet and there is no chemistry, no concrete commonality, or true attraction. He should be polite and want to meet with you, be in the moment, and experience the person that you are.
Your partner really needs to feel needed. Why? Because it’s a great feeling for them and your partner will feel more attraction for you! So ladies (or men), ask for some help. “Hey, can you pump my bicycle tire….pleeeease? I can’t get the cap off the valve.” This is the one time it’s OK to fake it ladies. 🙂
