A romantic couple needs both chemistry and compatibility to maintain a relationship. The couple needs the chemistry so they want to be with each other all the time…through better and through worse.
This is in a first date courting situation: A high value man who has empathy will understand that after a date, IF the woman likes him, that she’ll be worried that he doesn’t like her if she doesn’t hear from him. The high value man won’t want the woman to worry. Also, a high value man will text first if he’s a gentleman and was raised correctly. Is he a high value man?
Ladies, stay in your feminine….this shows that you’re very strong. A woman who is only in her masculine is probably very weak, and insecure, putting up barriers, stating that she doesn’t need a man. Of course she needs a man. A man likes a feminine woman. He will like you!
Okay, so when you first meet someone you’re considering romantically…especially if you haven’t met in person: DON’T spend time texting to try and get to know them. DO text to plan a time to meet. That’s it, done… until you meet. DON’T have a dinner date first, do a coffee shop, an ice cream walking around (watching how good they can use that tongue), or a happy hour. If you feel like you want to get to know them a little more before you meet, then speak on the phone.
So…you went through another relationship, ugh. #breakup No matter who called this shot, this is a good thing because now you can have the opportunity to find the right person to include in your life. You were probably matched incorrectly, meaning that you weren’t a match from the beginning. This is why we date, to get to know someone’s values and our intimacy stages with them. If there isn’t an intimate bonding in different ways, then there won’t be a happy, healthy relationship. While dating, you need to spend as
Did you know?…. that women in their 40’s and 50’s have more, and easier, orgasms than in their earlier years. Yep. So now I’m wondering why so many men ruin a relationship or marriage to be with a younger woman, and then hit the button and repeat. They must not have the ability to connect intimately on all four levels of intimacy. Regardless, ladies enjoy!!! And guys, hang on to your honey, it’s only getting better.
Ladies, don’t worry about your date slowing down on his “jive” after awhile, and here’s why! Men typically talk more during the period of the first few dates than ever. They are telling you all about themselves, kind of like discussing their resume of “who they are by sharing what they think, feel, and value. Once a man gets the job (you) and he is exclusive, there’s no longer any reason to keep talking.” Talking has served it’s purpose. Now that they know each other….and this is after a few
Ladies, After a few weeks of dating, you don’t hear from him anymore. OMG, why? Probably because he gave you some good lip service and won’t pull through with his promises. You didn’t hear from him…there’s your answer. Another reason why you shouldn’t be intimate for 2-3 months. #values Protect yourself with your boundaries.
So, you’ve been dating a little while and now you’re wondering what your dates’ intentions are in regards to your dating thing. I’m calling this a thing because we don’t know what this dating situation is yet. I always say that honesty is the best policy, and probably the best thing to do is go ahead and ask: “Hey ???, we’ve been going out awhile now, and I’ve been having a nice time hanging out with you (and everything). I was just wondering how you feel about ‘us’ so far
Remember: “I miss you” doesn’t mean “I choose you”
