“I cannot find a person (man or woman) that respects me! What’s wrong with people in todays world?” I hear this from both men and women, so I use the phrase “person”. The tough truth is that you attract this type of person because, most likely, you don’t respect yourself and they pick up on this. Yep, you’re with this person and anyone that respects themselves would simply walk away, not stay and wonder why…..you’re responsible for yourself. Set your criteria, (#values) don’t waiver, but your actions have to follow
Here are a few texting mistakes to avoid if you’ve recently met someone: Keep you text messages short but sweet to keep from being overbearing. If you are the one keeping the texting conversation going, then the other person probably isn’t as interested. Slow down and see what happens. Checking in is okay with a client, but not with your newly met man. If he’s interested he’ll be checking in with you. If men want to be there, they will be there. It’s all about their biological pursuit. Do acknowledge
Through personal dating and relationship experience, research, (yes, directly with people) and development, I now have the 6 week session of dating information which will add value to your dating life and help you dodge a big bullet later on in your life. This is designed to get you ready for the time, unexpected or expected, that you bump into your Match. You gotta be ready! After this 6 week dating for a relationship course, you will be less shy, have naturally more self dating confidence, and be less weary
Okay, so I was in Miami with my son and his ‘crew’ driving downtown, awaiting a red light, and vavoom! Crossing the street comes a braless wonder in a tight cropped tee, and the guys are like wow…wait…wow? Somethings wrong there….what? The motherly instinct kicked in and I thought it would be in their best interest to educate at the sake of embarrassing anyone. After three children, nothing phases me. Breast Petals! They’re like what? Yep, silicone patches that women place on their breasts so nipples won’t show. We all
What will you remember ten years from now when you’re asked on a day date but you have a client scheduled: The date or the client appointment? Go on the date and have fun! You’ll remember that fun day of skiing, hiking, or swimming but I guarantee you will not have a special memory of your (average or daily) work appointment in years to come. Go on your date.
So you met someone yesterday, and BaBamm! Where did he/she come from…out of nowhere? You got their number, so now what? Wait for the #3dayer? You know the three day wait before you text or call rule, so that you look like you have a life and are really busy and so you feel importantly perfect. Well guess what? He/She has a life too, so get over yourself, and plan a time that you can meet before they move on because you’re looking like a playa. Any person with their
How can you tell if he really likes you? You’ll just know. And if you keep questioning the situation, then he doesn’t.
To Ghost or not to Ghost, this is the question. Remember, all is fair in Love & War, but also remember that we are dealing with peoples emotions and feelings, and don’t forget how it feels to be hurt in a dating relationship. Ghosting is OK if you’ve had one date, and just want to leave it at that single date. You owe the other person nothing, so long as the time spent together was okay, so-so, nothing dramatic. If you’ve been seeing each other longer than 2-3 dates, let
All women want the nice, good guy. And I say all women, because who wants to be treated like crap by the bad guy? Respectfully, no one in their right mind. Instinctually, women are attracted to the protector, the guy that will physically, and hopefully, be able to protect the female and the family, and not coward the other way leaving the family to take on it’s attacker in the jungle. I have my personal opinion about the guy that comes in strong beating his chest like the amazon man….that’s a
Grab your sweetie pie by the waste and do an unexpected twirl around the kitchen while you’re cooking together and listening to this innocently, romantic song by Charlie Puth & Meghan Trainor! What a great way to attract your partners attention and forget about life’s pressures, or whatever has delayed our intimacy in our relationships. Go ahead, put on the vinyl, and feel the magic!
