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By Judy Sekinger October 27, 2020 in Breakups, Cheating, Communication, Dating, Lifestyle, Love, Responsibility, Sex, Stress, Uncategorized No Comments

Dual Dating

Dating two different people at the same time for several weeks or months can get tricky after awhile, especially when both of their names are the same!  Mine were named John, and they were first dates out of the divorce gate…no joke….one was a fix-up and the other I met on the golf course.  Now this was years ago when most of us still had a few corded landlines in certain areas of the home, and where it got tricky was when John would call and say “Hi, this is

By Judy Sekinger October 19, 2020 in Communication, Dating, Lifestyle, Love, Mental Health, Sex No Comments

Chemistry At First Sight

I’m referring to that strong chemistry that you feel when you meet someone for the first time: Soul Mate level.  Not “oh, he’s/she’s cute, handsome, or wanna take his pants off” feeling.  The powerful connection that when you look at him/her you see right through the baby-blues (or browns) deep into the soul connection, and it’s reciprocal!  The feeling doesn’t leave for months.  I’ve had it twice, but both never grew due to circumstances.  Your story?

By Judy Sekinger October 16, 2020 in Communication, Dating, Lifestyle, Love, Sex No Comments

Making The First Move

So, you keep bumping into her….go ahead…ask for her number!?!   Yaaass   This could be the beginning of a really great thing, and I’m not talking about the two of you.  She didn’t respond to your text but she was definitely honored by your moves.  FREEING!   You got this buddy, and just raised your confidence up a notch, not to mention no more time-wasting wondering if she likes you.  (I am officially designating “time-wasting” a residual dating thing)  The first time is always the hardest.  Now you’re ready for the next. 

By Judy Sekinger October 14, 2020 in Communication, Dating, Lifestyle, Love, Responsibility, Sex No Comments

Covid Dating?

Walk the dog though the park or scroll on-line , and you may meet someone that catches your eye….ZING!  It’s certainly possible to meet a few times while keeping your distance, just to see if there’s chemistry between you two.  This is really all you should be doing during your first meet-up. Within 1-2 meet-ups you should discuss distancing and know….  And if there’s a connection then go ahead and begin connecting.  Humans are made for intimacy and partnerships.  You got this!!

By Judy Sekinger October 10, 2020 in Cheating, Communication, Dating, Lifestyle, Love, Mental Health, Responsibility, Uncategorized No Comments

For Every Action There’s A Reaction

This has always been a manta in my life:  Action = Reaction   Do the right thing, and you’ll most likely get a good result.   A negative action, and you’ll probably get repercussions in one direction or another.  My kids can attest to this.  And Zella dog?  She knows via training, that there will be a leash if she doesn’t walk with me.  Got kids?  Your relationship?  It’s up to you….the truth always comes out later or sooner 😉

By Judy Sekinger October 2, 2020 in Cheating, Communication, Dating, Lifestyle, Love, Mental Health, Responsibility, Sex No Comments

Seven Types of Orgasms

I love a good talk show while driving, and I’ll share a few fav’s sometime.  I was surprised to understand that there are seven, YES 7!!!, types of orgasms for women. 🙂  WooHoo we hit the jackpot.  Ever notice how some O’s are more intense than others?  Well, here’s the menu: Clitorial, Nipple, G-Spot, The Anal, Urethral, A-Spot, and Vaginal. Guys, just because your gal didn’t react, #screamwithdelight, doesn’t mean she isn’t pleasured and satisfied.

By Judy Sekinger October 2, 2020 in Arguing, Breakups, Cheating, Communication, Dating, Lifestyle, Love, Sex No Comments

Perfectly Perfect

New date coming up gals?  A great way to feel comfortable is to dress comfortable and wear what you like.  Stiletto’s?  Hell yeah if you can walk the walk, but don’t wear them on a first date if you’ll be hunched over with sore feet in the first hour.  Be yourself, dress like yourself, and enjoy yourself.  You’ll be perfectly perfect.   And if the spark isn’t there, that’s okay….there’s nothing you can do to create true chemistry.  On to the next date….for both of you.

By Judy Sekinger September 16, 2020 in Communication, Dating, Lifestyle, Love No Comments

Gaze Up!

Stumbled across this quaint ivy covered old house with a vivid blue sky, and what you can’t see is an alley below full of garbage cans and cinder filled brick pavers with overgrown grass and weeds.    Looking down was not so beautiful, but gazing up was extraordinary. Look down or gaze up!?!

By Judy Sekinger August 25, 2020 in Dating No Comments

Dating

My best advice to dating at any age: Be yourself and be honest with the other person, right from the beginning. Forget the emotional games. Imagine if everyone was honest with their potential future partner, time would be saved as well as broken hearts! Don’t waste your time with a playa if you’re looking for a true relationship.

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