Grab your sweetie pie by the waste and do an unexpected twirl around the kitchen while you’re cooking together and listening to this innocently, romantic song by Charlie Puth & Meghan Trainor! What a great way to attract your partners attention and forget about life’s pressures, or whatever has delayed our intimacy in our relationships. Go ahead, put on the vinyl, and feel the magic!
Nope, you never have too many vibrators. Says who? Whoever wants to! What ladies and gentlemen do need to watch is the ratio of toy only time with partner only time, or toy with partner time. Why? When using a vibrator, or such, and driven by your own touch, this is easily navigated for great pleasure. This is great, except ya gotta be careful not to get so utterly use to this because it can worsen your chances of pleasure with your partner. Yes, this is a thing (topic). Go for the
I’ve seen this over and over again, and I was reminded again…..ugh….not in my personal life, for the record only. One of the greatest ways to kill romance, or any chance of romance in your relationship, is to leave a mess in your home for your partner to live with and clean up after. And while I’d like to say that you are simply a slob and don’t know any better, I’m calling your B.S. You’re an adult, get your crap together or get out. This passive aggressive move is
Did you ever wonder why sex can be great one day, really great (!) another day, so-so (ok, I’ll take it) another day, and what’s happening to me another day?! My juju estimation is that sexual satisfaction #reachinganorgasm, is 90% mental, for both males and females. Relaxation and chemistry can provide some really great romps in the hay. Guys and gals this is why the drive home, or a walk with the dog, is so important after a long day of work. And there’s a reason why foreplay can be
While wrapping a present and tying a casual (imperfect) bow, I thought about a memory years ago…it’s amazing how an emotion can come back to us from a small but grand gesture! I was dating a man, business oriented which is what jives with my personality, and as I got to know him better I found he was unafraid to show his emotions and very creative, but you’d never know this if you weren’t close to him. Close friends and family thought we’d marry some day, and to this day
Turn on that music, stop what you’re doing, grab your partner and make some love! Pleasure is that simple. Don’t have a partner….love yourself. 🙂
Yesterday morning I ran into KK (fictitious name) while walking my dog, Zella. Our dogs are best buds….so cute! KK was so excited because she met a man via mutual work associates and have been dating for a few months. KK said “Judy, we can just sit on the sofa and kiss for hours!” Well, I have to comment when it comes to dating. “Seriously KK this happens at every age. It’s like puppy love and lust and love can happen in your 70’s just like in your teens!” KK
Hey guys, when meeting your first date at a venue be sure to be there before her, or at least within minutes of the agreed upon time. Traffic? Couldn’t find the other sock? Mom called? There is no excuse. The lady shouldn’t have to wait there by herself, and you never know who she could meet while waiting for your scrumptious buttocks. Game on! Married men, be there on time for your wives, this shows you care and is very good foreplay for what’s to come.
Years ago when I was first on the dating seen as a bonafide adult, I was going away for an evening and OM-Gosh, what do I wear at night? So I went to VC and bumped into a friend who was also single and dating. I’ll refer to the friend as SAD, single and dating. 🙂 Now that I think about this scenario, it’s the classic of Girlfriends Guide to Divorce, lol. And I DO have a lot of these stories! So if you can imagine, SAD said, “Oh no,
Remember how you met. This is not meant as a question, but to remember the feeling of when the two of you met. When I first meet couples, I like to ask them how they met. Smiles come to their faces and it evokes memories and those puppy love feelings, even in the emotions of more established couples. Some have given me the first public confession of an on-line meeting. Some couples have the exact same stories, and the more competitive couples ask me which version I want first. 😉
