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Still dating or attracted to the same type of person? Take a dating break.  No serial dating. Don’t try to date a different type….just don’t date that type of person anymore, and see the new type of person comes towards you.  You need to be eyes wide open to recognize the change, and this will take a little bit of time. You’ll be pleasantly surprised.

Prepare yourself to be ready to meet a nice person and date….really be ready. If you feel like you need to get into better shape, mentally disable the past relationships, shave more often, lol, what ever it is to get your self ready, get ready! Believe it or not, there are a lot of truly great people out there that want to meet and be in a long term relationship, and it’s not fair to them if you waste their time, especially mental time, because you cannot move forward with

…then the marriage will never work!?   True or False? This was the discussion at an early morning Pilates Reformer class this morning.  A 27 year old woman said that because the instructors ex-BF’s mother was very opinionated and controlling over their wedding plans, that a marriage would never had worked….of course, I had to add my two-cents. 🙂 The marriage absolutely can work.  BUT, only, and I emphasize ONLY, if the husband takes the side of his bride at every difficult turn AND has the talk with his Mother. The couple

Marriage, as in a personal love relationship, needs more than love, intimacy, honesty, and trust, to flow nicely through your lives together.  Marriage on a business level is a different animal and may be discussed at a later time. Detailed discussions on religious views, children and how will they be raised, boundaries with in-laws, and money and budget, are a must before taking the blissful plunge into a successful marriage. While I am not going to dive deep here, if you are about to get involved in your first or

Notice I didn’t say Thanksgiving alone…..this isn’t a get the violin out moment. People have many reasons for spending a holiday with themselves, and this doesn’t mean that you’re alone…you are with your self!  Take the day to do whatever you feel like doing.  Blast your favorite old tunes, workout, volunteer or help someone out with a task, get dressed and grab a delish bite for dinner! Don’t play the poor me victim. Everyone needs to learn to be by them selves.  Truly by them selves.   Being by your self

Is dating the life of the party a bad idea?  The life of the party (LOTP) always looks good physically, is exciting, and happy.  The LOTP most likely has great social skills, impresses family members well, craves social interaction with groups, and is emotionally appealing on the surface. The downside of the LOTP is that they are on full speed ahead while in public, and not many people have the energy to keep up at this pace during all their waking hours.  The LOTP is most likely more introverted at

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