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By Judy Sekinger March 8, 2022 in Breakups, Closure, Communication, Dating, Lifestyle, Relationship, Responsibility, Stress No Comments

Try This!?!

Take a REAL look at what’s going on in your dating situation. Rather than getting super emotional, #crying #whinning, take a step back and regroup.  Look at what your dating situation really is:  He/She isn’t respecting you or your feelings.  YOU are perfectly perfect and you need to run, not walk, to your Happy Healthy Relationship. This is for guys as well as the ladies. *Note:  If you think you can stay for your own gain, you’re mistaken.  You’re wasting you’re well-being and adding stress to your life.

By Judy Sekinger September 1, 2021 in Communication, Dating, Foreplay, Lifestyle, Love, Relationship No Comments

Fake It

Your partner really needs to feel needed.  Why?  Because it’s a great feeling for them and your partner will feel more attraction for you! So ladies (or men), ask for some help.  “Hey, can you pump my bicycle tire….pleeeease? I can’t get the cap off the valve.”  This is the one time it’s OK to fake it ladies. 🙂    

By Judy Sekinger August 15, 2021 in Breakups, Closure, Communication, Dating, Lifestyle, Love, Mental Health, Relationship, Responsibility, Uncategorized, Values No Comments

Another Breakup?

So…you went through another relationship, ugh.  #breakup  No matter who called this shot, this is a good thing because now you can have the opportunity to find the right person to include in your life. You were probably matched incorrectly, meaning that you weren’t a match from the beginning. This is why we date, to get to know someone’s values and our intimacy stages with them.   If there isn’t an intimate bonding in different ways, then there won’t be a happy, healthy relationship. While dating, you need to spend as

By Judy Sekinger July 30, 2021 in Communication, Dating, Foreplay, Goals, Lifestyle, Relationship, Responsibility, Sex No Comments

Feelin’ Good, Ladies!

Did you know?…. that women in their 40’s and 50’s have more, and easier, orgasms than in their earlier years.  Yep. So now I’m wondering why so many men ruin a relationship or marriage to be with a younger woman, and then hit the button and repeat.   They must not have the ability to connect intimately on all four levels of intimacy. Regardless, ladies enjoy!!!    And guys, hang on to your honey, it’s only getting better.

By Judy Sekinger July 25, 2021 in Communication, Dating, Goals, Lifestyle, Relationship, Values No Comments

Moving towards exclusivity

Ladies, don’t worry about your date slowing down on his “jive” after awhile, and here’s why! Men typically talk more during the period of the first few dates than ever.  They are telling you all about themselves, kind of like discussing their resume of “who they are by sharing what they think, feel, and value.  Once a man gets the job (you) and he is exclusive, there’s no longer any reason to keep talking.” Talking has served it’s purpose.  Now that they know each other….and this is after a few

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