Twenty-two countries have visited AYBNS in this month of December. Greece, Great Britain, France, Israel, and Canada to name a few, and I hope to visit your beautiful countries one of these days!
Run, don’t walk! Whether it’s co-workers, family members, friends, a person walking with their dog through the park, negative people’s attitude will enter your vibe and throw you off course to your greatness. Keep your distance from these people. Look how far Forrest Gump went, he was successful because he is so pure of heart. And boy could he run. Run don’t walk!
Everyone has a perfect match. Perfect person? Nope. Perfect match? Yes. We all have flaws, perfections, and faults, needed to match with that perfectly, unperfect person that is compatible with our lives.
Prepare yourself to be ready to meet a nice person and date….really be ready. If you feel like you need to get into better shape, mentally disable the past relationships, shave more often, lol, what ever it is to get your self ready, get ready! Believe it or not, there are a lot of truly great people out there that want to meet and be in a long term relationship, and it’s not fair to them if you waste their time, especially mental time, because you cannot move forward with
While finding a compatible mate, there are specific qualities that a person should assess before romance can begin: Sense of Humor How you Interact Rapport Chemistry Naturally able to Communicate We can assess this quicker with a face-to-face than we can in hours upon hours of browsing dating sites. Slow down and be aware when you are out and about…many people have met this natural way! Does love find us, or do we look for love?
Years ago when I was first on the dating seen as a bonafide adult, I was going away for an evening and OM-Gosh, what do I wear at night? So I went to VC and bumped into a friend who was also single and dating. I’ll refer to the friend as SAD, single and dating. 🙂 Now that I think about this scenario, it’s the classic of Girlfriends Guide to Divorce, lol. And I DO have a lot of these stories! So if you can imagine, SAD said, “Oh no,
…then the marriage will never work!? True or False? This was the discussion at an early morning Pilates Reformer class this morning. A 27 year old woman said that because the instructors ex-BF’s mother was very opinionated and controlling over their wedding plans, that a marriage would never had worked….of course, I had to add my two-cents. 🙂 The marriage absolutely can work. BUT, only, and I emphasize ONLY, if the husband takes the side of his bride at every difficult turn AND has the talk with his Mother. The couple
Marriage, as in a personal love relationship, needs more than love, intimacy, honesty, and trust, to flow nicely through your lives together. Marriage on a business level is a different animal and may be discussed at a later time. Detailed discussions on religious views, children and how will they be raised, boundaries with in-laws, and money and budget, are a must before taking the blissful plunge into a successful marriage. While I am not going to dive deep here, if you are about to get involved in your first or
Notice I didn’t say Thanksgiving alone…..this isn’t a get the violin out moment. People have many reasons for spending a holiday with themselves, and this doesn’t mean that you’re alone…you are with your self! Take the day to do whatever you feel like doing. Blast your favorite old tunes, workout, volunteer or help someone out with a task, get dressed and grab a delish bite for dinner! Don’t play the poor me victim. Everyone needs to learn to be by them selves. Truly by them selves. Being by your self
Remember how you met. This is not meant as a question, but to remember the feeling of when the two of you met. When I first meet couples, I like to ask them how they met. Smiles come to their faces and it evokes memories and those puppy love feelings, even in the emotions of more established couples. Some have given me the first public confession of an on-line meeting. Some couples have the exact same stories, and the more competitive couples ask me which version I want first. 😉
