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By Judy Sekinger May 7, 2021 in Communication, Dating, Lifestyle, Love, Relationship, Responsibility No Comments

Approaches

  When it comes to communicating, women have a more emotional approach to communicating than men.  On the other hand, men have a much more logical communication approach than women. So if women can communicate in a logical way to men, this should help him understand what you need on an emotional level, and that’s a win-win! And men, ya gotta understand how this works for many women, too.  Pulling out the crazy card doesn’t work anymore. Communication can lead to foreplay, which leads to intimacy on a deeper level.  

By Judy Sekinger March 14, 2021 in Communication, Dating, Foreplay, Lifestyle, Love, Mental Health, Relationship, Sex, Stress, Uncategorized No Comments

Is Sex 90% Mental?

Did you ever wonder why sex can be great one day, really great (!) another day, so-so (ok, I’ll take it) another day, and what’s happening to me another day?! My juju estimation is that sexual satisfaction #reachinganorgasm, is 90% mental, for both males and females.  Relaxation and chemistry can provide some really great romps in the hay.  Guys and gals this is why the drive home, or a walk with the dog, is so important after a long day of work.  And there’s a reason why foreplay can be

By Judy Sekinger February 13, 2021 in Communication, Dating, Foreplay, Love, Relationship No Comments

It’s All About The Bow

While wrapping a present and tying a casual (imperfect) bow, I thought about a memory years ago…it’s amazing how an emotion can come back to us from a small but grand gesture!  I was dating a man, business oriented which is what jives with my personality, and as I got to know him better I found he was unafraid to show his emotions and very creative, but you’d never know this if you weren’t close to him.  Close friends and family thought we’d marry some day, and to this day

By Judy Sekinger February 9, 2021 in Communication, Dating, Goals, Lifestyle, Love, Relationship, Responsibility No Comments

Standards

Are friends and family telling you that you’re too picky because you’re not dating or  because you can’t find your person?  Dating Rule #007:  Don’t listen to other peoples negative opinions.  Whether you want the prince or the hooker, do what your inner self is telling you. Hold tight to your standards and don’t give them up.  Your person will come in front of you at some point, making the journey well worth the wait.  You’re the cherry on the top of that tree…why spend time with someone picking up

By Judy Sekinger January 26, 2021 in Communication, Dating, Lifestyle, Love, Mental Health, Relationship No Comments

Togetherness…..

So you’ve been dating a few months, everything’s going quite well, and now you’re invited to go on a trip, spending a weekend together….togetherness! Nervous?  That’s perfectly normal, and I’m sure you’re partner feels exactly the same.   Nervous, excited, anxious for the feelings and positive vibes you two will be creating together during the next few days.  Ah, the bliss of a new relationship. So here you are the evening before, packing your bag and nervously wishing you could take the whole closet.   What are you going to do? Tomorrow morning

By Judy Sekinger January 20, 2021 in Communication, Dating, Lifestyle, Love, Relationship, Responsibility, Sex No Comments

Give the guy a break!

Ladies, and I mean married, single, as well as in a relationship:  Give the guy a break! Men a women’s minds have different conceptions of love, lust, and relationship communications.  Your man isn’t perfect and either are you.  Guys are guys, and quite frankly, (generally speaking) I find their simple to the point mind refreshing. Simply enjoy the view when they’re flipping the meat on the grill. So if you’re expecting a fairytale Valentine’s Day, birthday celebration, or life with your man, you may want to get some basic professional

By Judy Sekinger January 17, 2021 in Communication, Dating, Goals, Lifestyle, Love, Relationship, Uncategorized No Comments

..before it’s too late

I didn’t really know what to write this morning, and nothing is fine by me.  Zella didn’t want to go for a walk….very rare.  So here I am humming to Desperado during my morning off routine: Desperado, why don’t you come to your senses? Come down from your fences, open the gate It may be rainin’, but there’s a rainbow above you You better let somebody love you Let somebody love you You better let somebody love you before it’s too late #Eagles    

By Judy Sekinger January 15, 2021 in Dating, Foreplay, Lifestyle, Love, Relationship, Sex No Comments

Kissing on the sofa

Yesterday morning I ran into KK (fictitious name) while walking my dog, Zella.  Our dogs are best buds….so cute!  KK was so excited because she met a man via mutual work associates and have been dating for a few months.  KK said  “Judy, we can just sit on the sofa and kiss for hours!”  Well, I have to comment when it comes to dating.  “Seriously KK this happens at every age.  It’s like puppy love and lust and love can happen in your 70’s just like in your teens!”  KK

By Judy Sekinger January 12, 2021 in Breakups, Communication, Dating, Goals, Lifestyle, Love, Mental Health, Relationship, Responsibility, Stress No Comments

Getting Anywhere?

Dating and not getting anywhere?  Stop, and take a year or so off from seeing anyone romantically. Make friends with folks you normally wouldn’t.  Try different experiences alone or with others.  Get comfortable by yourself and know yourself better.  Regroup yourself and get back to that great base person that you truly are. Now after your break from dating, see the types of person you attract and who you’re attracted to.  I bet they’ll be more compatible to the person you truly are. The whole point here is to find

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