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Still dating or attracted to the same type of person? Take a dating break.  No serial dating. Don’t try to date a different type….just don’t date that type of person anymore, and see the new type of person comes towards you.  You need to be eyes wide open to recognize the change, and this will take a little bit of time. You’ll be pleasantly surprised.

Run, don’t walk! Whether it’s co-workers, family members, friends, a person walking with their dog through the park, negative people’s attitude will enter your vibe and throw you off course to your greatness.  Keep your distance from these people. Look how far Forrest Gump went, he was successful because he is so pure of heart.  And boy could he run. Run don’t walk!

Rejection is really tough to take, and we’ve all been rejected at one time or another in a relationship or simply by someone we’d like to get to know. 🙂 That other person is looking for his or her match…whatever that match may be.  Yes, it’s personal, but don’t take it personally.  Be sure to ask for a sound explanation, and remember that persons expanation for refection at a later time.  You’ll see that the break-up was probably for a good reason. You have to go through the emotional shock

Prepare yourself to be ready to meet a nice person and date….really be ready. If you feel like you need to get into better shape, mentally disable the past relationships, shave more often, lol, what ever it is to get your self ready, get ready! Believe it or not, there are a lot of truly great people out there that want to meet and be in a long term relationship, and it’s not fair to them if you waste their time, especially mental time, because you cannot move forward with

Years ago when I was first on the dating seen as a bonafide adult, I was going away for an evening and OM-Gosh, what do I wear at night?  So I went to VC and bumped into a friend who was also single and dating.  I’ll refer to the friend as SAD, single and dating. 🙂  Now that I think about this scenario, it’s the classic of Girlfriends Guide to Divorce, lol.  And I DO have a lot of these stories! So if you can imagine, SAD said, “Oh no,

…then the marriage will never work!?   True or False? This was the discussion at an early morning Pilates Reformer class this morning.  A 27 year old woman said that because the instructors ex-BF’s mother was very opinionated and controlling over their wedding plans, that a marriage would never had worked….of course, I had to add my two-cents. 🙂 The marriage absolutely can work.  BUT, only, and I emphasize ONLY, if the husband takes the side of his bride at every difficult turn AND has the talk with his Mother. The couple

Marriage, as in a personal love relationship, needs more than love, intimacy, honesty, and trust, to flow nicely through your lives together.  Marriage on a business level is a different animal and may be discussed at a later time. Detailed discussions on religious views, children and how will they be raised, boundaries with in-laws, and money and budget, are a must before taking the blissful plunge into a successful marriage. While I am not going to dive deep here, if you are about to get involved in your first or

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