I’m referring to that strong chemistry that you feel when you meet someone for the first time: Soul Mate level. Not “oh, he’s/she’s cute, handsome, or wanna take his pants off” feeling. The powerful connection that when you look at him/her you see right through the baby-blues (or browns) deep into the soul connection, and it’s reciprocal! The feeling doesn’t leave for months. I’ve had it twice, but both never grew due to circumstances. Your story?
“Abuse comes in many forms, not all of which are physical. When someone repeatedly uses words to demean, frighten, or control someone, it’s considered verbal abuse. The trouble is, when you’re involved in a verbally abusive relationship, it can wear you down and seem normal to you.” www.healthline.com Ten signs of verbal abuse: www.joinonelove.org Know that it’s not your fault, but it’s your responsibility to seek help for yourself.
This has always been a manta in my life: Action = Reaction Do the right thing, and you’ll most likely get a good result. A negative action, and you’ll probably get repercussions in one direction or another. My kids can attest to this. And Zella dog? She knows via training, that there will be a leash if she doesn’t walk with me. Got kids? Your relationship? It’s up to you….the truth always comes out later or sooner 😉
I love a good talk show while driving, and I’ll share a few fav’s sometime. I was surprised to understand that there are seven, YES 7!!!, types of orgasms for women. 🙂 WooHoo we hit the jackpot. Ever notice how some O’s are more intense than others? Well, here’s the menu: Clitorial, Nipple, G-Spot, The Anal, Urethral, A-Spot, and Vaginal. Guys, just because your gal didn’t react, #screamwithdelight, doesn’t mean she isn’t pleasured and satisfied.
Years ago, when my babies were babies, I’d pull them in the red wagon, turn around and say, “someday you’ll be pulling me in the wagon.” <3 They were baffled because “mommy, you’re too big!” Fast forward almost 30 years later, my Millennials are smarter and faster with the same core values. And now, I can count on them for tech, travel, fitness, and financial advice. Pay now, or pay later.
Stressed??? Make your best decisions, sit back, do your best and stay motivated. “It” will go the right direction even if the direction isn’t what you expected. There’s a reason for this, unknown at the time. Hang on for the ride and you’ll see your life change and evolve for the better…just you wait and see! The longer you hang on to the old, the longer until you’ll see the new. If your situation is just too much to handle on your own, seek professional help.
