I really don’t watch much TV, but I had it on last week from the nightly news to catch up on the beautiful people and country of Ukraine…and I am praying for their peace. A few hours later I walked by the TV and saw The Bachelor, and thought I should see what’s going on, well, because I’m kinda interested in the dating arena. Classic ending that I could’ve guessed and here’s why: Two women (of the three left) were very emotionally hurt because they slept with him before they
Take a REAL look at what’s going on in your dating situation. Rather than getting super emotional, #crying #whinning, take a step back and regroup. Look at what your dating situation really is: He/She isn’t respecting you or your feelings. YOU are perfectly perfect and you need to run, not walk, to your Happy Healthy Relationship. This is for guys as well as the ladies. *Note: If you think you can stay for your own gain, you’re mistaken. You’re wasting you’re well-being and adding stress to your life.
Ladies, After a few weeks of dating, you don’t hear from him anymore. OMG, why? Probably because he gave you some good lip service and won’t pull through with his promises. You didn’t hear from him…there’s your answer. Another reason why you shouldn’t be intimate for 2-3 months. #values Protect yourself with your boundaries.
So, you’ve been dating a little while and now you’re wondering what your dates’ intentions are in regards to your dating thing. I’m calling this a thing because we don’t know what this dating situation is yet. I always say that honesty is the best policy, and probably the best thing to do is go ahead and ask: “Hey ???, we’ve been going out awhile now, and I’ve been having a nice time hanging out with you (and everything). I was just wondering how you feel about ‘us’ so far
Remember: “I miss you” doesn’t mean “I choose you”
Okay, so I was in Miami with my son and his ‘crew’ driving downtown, awaiting a red light, and vavoom! Crossing the street comes a braless wonder in a tight cropped tee, and the guys are like wow…wait…wow? Somethings wrong there….what? The motherly instinct kicked in and I thought it would be in their best interest to educate at the sake of embarrassing anyone. After three children, nothing phases me. Breast Petals! They’re like what? Yep, silicone patches that women place on their breasts so nipples won’t show. We all
How can you tell if he really likes you? You’ll just know. And if you keep questioning the situation, then he doesn’t.
To Ghost or not to Ghost, this is the question. Remember, all is fair in Love & War, but also remember that we are dealing with peoples emotions and feelings, and don’t forget how it feels to be hurt in a dating relationship. Ghosting is OK if you’ve had one date, and just want to leave it at that single date. You owe the other person nothing, so long as the time spent together was okay, so-so, nothing dramatic. If you’ve been seeing each other longer than 2-3 dates, let
Nope, you never have too many vibrators. Says who? Whoever wants to! What ladies and gentlemen do need to watch is the ratio of toy only time with partner only time, or toy with partner time. Why? When using a vibrator, or such, and driven by your own touch, this is easily navigated for great pleasure. This is great, except ya gotta be careful not to get so utterly use to this because it can worsen your chances of pleasure with your partner. Yes, this is a thing (topic). Go for the
Ever wonder why you keep thinking about your ex all the time…those fond memories? Our common sense protective instincts that usually protect and serve us in a physical trauma aren’t used when your heart is broken… When your heart is broken your thoughts go down a different path, heart ache causes such dramatic emotional pain, and even when we are given a very logical reason why that person broke up with us (damn it!) we make up mysteries and other theories when there are none. We cannot trust what
