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By Judy Sekinger June 25, 2021 in Communication, Dating, Foreplay, Lifestyle, Relationship, Responsibility No Comments

Texting, Gals?

Here are a few texting mistakes to avoid if you’ve recently met someone: Keep you text messages short but sweet to keep from being overbearing. If you are the one keeping the texting conversation going, then the other person probably isn’t as interested.  Slow down and see what happens. Checking in is okay with a client, but not with your newly met man.  If he’s interested he’ll be checking in with you.  If men want to be there, they will be there.  It’s all about their biological pursuit. Do acknowledge

By Judy Sekinger June 23, 2021 in Communication, Dating, Goals, Lifestyle, Relationship, Responsibility, Uncategorized No Comments

Most People Are Dating Blind….Don’t!

Through personal dating and relationship experience, research, (yes, directly with people) and development, I now have the 6 week session of dating information which will add value to your dating life and help you dodge a big bullet later on in your life. This is designed to get you ready for the time, unexpected or expected, that you bump into your Match.  You gotta be ready! After this 6 week dating for a relationship course, you will be less shy, have naturally more self dating confidence, and be less weary

By Judy Sekinger June 9, 2021 in Dating, Lifestyle, Mental Health, Relationship No Comments

Impromptu Day Date

What will you remember ten years from now when you’re asked on a day date but you have a client scheduled:   The date or the client appointment? Go on the date and have fun!   You’ll remember that fun day of skiing, hiking, or swimming but I guarantee you will not have a special memory of your (average or daily) work appointment in years to come. Go on your date.

By Judy Sekinger June 6, 2021 in Communication, Dating, Foreplay, Lifestyle, Relationship No Comments

3 Day Rule? Not.

So you met someone yesterday, and BaBamm!  Where did he/she come from…out of nowhere? You got their number, so now what?  Wait for the #3dayer?  You know the three day wait before you text or call rule, so that you look like you have a life and are really busy and so you feel importantly perfect. Well guess what?  He/She has a life too, so get over yourself, and plan a time that you can meet before they move on because you’re looking like a playa. Any person with their

By Judy Sekinger May 27, 2021 in Closure, Communication, Dating, Mental Health, Relationship, Responsibility, Stress No Comments

Ghost, or not to Ghost?

To Ghost or not to Ghost, this is the question. Remember, all is fair in Love & War, but also remember that we are dealing with peoples emotions and feelings, and don’t forget how it feels to be hurt in a dating relationship. Ghosting is OK if you’ve had one date, and just want to leave it at that single date.  You owe the other person nothing, so long as the time spent together was okay, so-so, nothing dramatic. If you’ve been seeing each other longer than 2-3 dates, let

By Judy Sekinger May 22, 2021 in Communication, Dating, Foreplay, Relationship, Responsibility No Comments

Why women want the “good guy”, but…..

All women want the nice, good guy.  And I say all women, because who wants to be treated like crap by the bad guy?  Respectfully, no one in their right mind. Instinctually, women are attracted to the protector, the guy that will physically, and hopefully, be able to protect the female and the family, and not coward the other way leaving the family to take on it’s attacker in the jungle.  I have my personal opinion about the guy that comes in strong beating his chest like the amazon man….that’s a

By Judy Sekinger May 13, 2021 in Communication, Dating, Foreplay, Lifestyle, Love, Relationship, Sex, Uncategorized No Comments

Let’s Marvin Gaye & Get It On

Grab your sweetie pie by the waste and do an unexpected twirl around the kitchen while you’re cooking together and listening to this innocently, romantic song by Charlie Puth & Meghan Trainor! What a great way to attract your partners attention and forget about life’s pressures, or whatever has delayed our intimacy in our relationships. Go ahead, put on the vinyl, and feel the magic!

By Judy Sekinger May 7, 2021 in Communication, Dating, Lifestyle, Love, Relationship, Responsibility No Comments

Approaches

  When it comes to communicating, women have a more emotional approach to communicating than men.  On the other hand, men have a much more logical communication approach than women. So if women can communicate in a logical way to men, this should help him understand what you need on an emotional level, and that’s a win-win! And men, ya gotta understand how this works for many women, too.  Pulling out the crazy card doesn’t work anymore. Communication can lead to foreplay, which leads to intimacy on a deeper level.  

By Judy Sekinger April 27, 2021 in Breakups, Closure, Communication, Dating, Mental Health, Relationship, Responsibility, Stress No Comments

Fixing A Broken Heart

Ever wonder why you keep thinking about your ex all the time…those fond memories?   Our common sense protective instincts that usually protect and serve us in a physical trauma aren’t used when your heart is broken…    When your heart is broken your thoughts go down a different path, heart ache causes such dramatic emotional pain, and even when we are given a very logical reason why that person broke up with us (damn it!) we make up mysteries and other theories when there are none.  We cannot trust what

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