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By Judy Sekinger March 14, 2021 in Communication, Dating, Foreplay, Lifestyle, Love, Mental Health, Relationship, Sex, Stress, Uncategorized No Comments

Is Sex 90% Mental?

Did you ever wonder why sex can be great one day, really great (!) another day, so-so (ok, I’ll take it) another day, and what’s happening to me another day?! My juju estimation is that sexual satisfaction #reachinganorgasm, is 90% mental, for both males and females.  Relaxation and chemistry can provide some really great romps in the hay.  Guys and gals this is why the drive home, or a walk with the dog, is so important after a long day of work.  And there’s a reason why foreplay can be

By Judy Sekinger January 20, 2021 in Communication, Dating, Lifestyle, Love, Relationship, Responsibility, Sex No Comments

Give the guy a break!

Ladies, and I mean married, single, as well as in a relationship:  Give the guy a break! Men a women’s minds have different conceptions of love, lust, and relationship communications.  Your man isn’t perfect and either are you.  Guys are guys, and quite frankly, (generally speaking) I find their simple to the point mind refreshing. Simply enjoy the view when they’re flipping the meat on the grill. So if you’re expecting a fairytale Valentine’s Day, birthday celebration, or life with your man, you may want to get some basic professional

By Judy Sekinger January 15, 2021 in Dating, Foreplay, Lifestyle, Love, Relationship, Sex No Comments

Kissing on the sofa

Yesterday morning I ran into KK (fictitious name) while walking my dog, Zella.  Our dogs are best buds….so cute!  KK was so excited because she met a man via mutual work associates and have been dating for a few months.  KK said  “Judy, we can just sit on the sofa and kiss for hours!”  Well, I have to comment when it comes to dating.  “Seriously KK this happens at every age.  It’s like puppy love and lust and love can happen in your 70’s just like in your teens!”  KK

By Judy Sekinger December 3, 2020 in Communication, Dating, Foreplay, Lifestyle, Love, Mental Health, Relationship, Responsibility, Sex, Stress No Comments

Wear, what??

Years ago when I was first on the dating seen as a bonafide adult, I was going away for an evening and OM-Gosh, what do I wear at night?  So I went to VC and bumped into a friend who was also single and dating.  I’ll refer to the friend as SAD, single and dating. 🙂  Now that I think about this scenario, it’s the classic of Girlfriends Guide to Divorce, lol.  And I DO have a lot of these stories! So if you can imagine, SAD said, “Oh no,

By Judy Sekinger November 29, 2020 in Communication, Dating, Goals, Lifestyle, Love, Mental Health, Relationship, Responsibility, Sex, Stress No Comments

A Marriage needs more than Love

Marriage, as in a personal love relationship, needs more than love, intimacy, honesty, and trust, to flow nicely through your lives together.  Marriage on a business level is a different animal and may be discussed at a later time. Detailed discussions on religious views, children and how will they be raised, boundaries with in-laws, and money and budget, are a must before taking the blissful plunge into a successful marriage. While I am not going to dive deep here, if you are about to get involved in your first or

By Judy Sekinger November 23, 2020 in Communication, Dating, Foreplay, Lifestyle, Love, Mental Health, Relationship, Sex, Uncategorized No Comments

How’d You Meet?

Remember how you met.  This is not meant as a question, but to remember the feeling of when the two of you met. When I first meet couples, I like to ask them how they met.  Smiles come to their faces and it evokes memories and those puppy love feelings, even in the emotions of more established couples.  Some have given me the first public confession of an on-line meeting. Some couples have the exact same stories, and the more competitive couples ask me which version I want first.  😉

By Judy Sekinger November 20, 2020 in Communication, Dating, Foreplay, Lifestyle, Love, Relationship, Sex No Comments

Attraction To Keep Him Hooked.

We’ve all been there, and almost every relationship gets settled which creates predictability or #dull.  Do away with the predictability, be spontaneous, this means you married ladies, too!  Do something unpredictable after dinner, like a game of chess rather than just watching TV.  Walk down the street and share an ice cream, go bowling or to a movie, try an axe throwing bar, anything to keep your relationship engaged and active! Stimulate his brain by bringing up a topic that you normally don’t discuss.  Triggering the brain awakens the brains

By Judy Sekinger November 14, 2020 in Communication, Dating, Foreplay, Lifestyle, Love, Mental Health, Relationship, Responsibility, Sex, Uncategorized No Comments

Explore a New Relationship

We’re all going through some type of isolation now.  Maybe it’s working from home, cancelled sporting events (Steelers fan here!), shorter shopping trips (can’t wait to flip that mask),  lack of travel and vacations.  We’re going to have to be creative, which is why so many humans changed residences and got new Covid puppies!   The amount of truly nice people I’ve met because of Zella (dog) is incredible….#manmagnet. Single and not in a relationship?  Yikes! this is a tough one with finding a new relationship if everything is shut down

By Judy Sekinger November 12, 2020 in Cheating, Communication, Dating, Lifestyle, Love, Responsibility, Sex, Stress No Comments

Relationship Matters…Covid’s Only an Excuse

Your bored, lonely feeling may just simply be boredom if your married or in a relationship. Behave like your newly dating and you’ll be surprised by the results of your interactions with each other!  Shower, style your hair, put real clothes on…get out of those daily grubs.  Ladies, remember how you prepped for your man before he picked you up?  I’ll bet your look and smell was sweet!  Men notice, and you’ll see a difference in interaction.   Men? Yup, we’re talking you too!!  Shower and put on a shirt and dazzle

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