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By Judy Sekinger November 9, 2020 in Breakups, Communication, Dating, Lifestyle, Love, Mental Health, Responsibility, Sex No Comments

Rewind Date?

Have you recently accepted or initiated a previous date? You know a rewind date… person you’ve dated pre-covid and are now circling back to? Maybe it’s a great possibility because you think you didn’t give the person a fair chance or maybe you have more time with the current world wide slow down to focus on your date. If there’s any type of attraction, explore the possibilities with this person. As always, be upfront and honest while dating. Casual? Companionship? Relationship? Hookup?

By Judy Sekinger November 7, 2020 in Communication, Dating, Lifestyle, Love, Responsibility, Sex No Comments

Walkofshame

Don’t act like you haven’t been there… 7 am with the bed hair Everyone knows it’s the walkashame American singer-songwriter Meghan Trainor, gotta luv her! Early congrats to Meghan and husband Daryl Sabara on expecting their first child together. Oh my god, I put my pants on inside out I couldn’t tell cause the lights were out I beat the sunrise again, oh oh oh Neighbors stare, I smile and wave cause I just don’t care They’re probably jealous of my sexy hair And the heels in my hands Well

By Judy Sekinger November 5, 2020 in Arguing, Breakups, Closure, Communication, Dating, Goals, Lifestyle, Love, Responsibility, Sex, Uncategorized No Comments

Dating The Life of the Party

Is dating the life of the party a bad idea? The life of the party (LOTP) always looks good physically, is exciting, and happy. The LOTP most likely has great social skills, impresses family members well, craves social interaction with groups, and is emotionally appealing on the surface. The downside of the LOTP is that they are on full speed ahead while in public, and not many people have the energy to keep up at this pace during all their waking hours. The LOTP is most likely more introverted at

By Judy Sekinger October 27, 2020 in Breakups, Cheating, Communication, Dating, Lifestyle, Love, Responsibility, Sex, Stress, Uncategorized No Comments

Dual Dating

Dating two different people at the same time for several weeks or months can get tricky after awhile, especially when both of their names are the same! Mine were named John, and they were first dates out of the divorce gate…no joke….one was a fix-up and the other I met on the golf course. Now this was years ago when most of us still had a few corded landlines in certain areas of the home, and where it got tricky was when John would call and say “Hi, this is

By Judy Sekinger October 19, 2020 in Communication, Dating, Lifestyle, Love, Mental Health, Sex No Comments

Chemistry At First Sight

I’m referring to that strong chemistry that you feel when you meet someone for the first time: Soul Mate level. Not “oh, he’s/she’s cute, handsome, or wanna take his pants off” feeling. The powerful connection that when you look at him/her you see right through the baby-blues (or browns) deep into the soul connection, and it’s reciprocal! The feeling doesn’t leave for months. I’ve had it twice, but both never grew due to circumstances. Your story?

By Judy Sekinger October 16, 2020 in Communication, Dating, Lifestyle, Love, Sex No Comments

Making The First Move

So, you keep bumping into her….go ahead…ask for her number!?! Yaaass This could be the beginning of a really great thing, and I’m not talking about the two of you. She didn’t respond to your text but she was definitely honored by your moves. FREEING! You got this buddy, and just raised your confidence up a notch, not to mention no more time-wasting wondering if she likes you. (I am officially designating “time-wasting” a residual dating thing) The first time is always the hardest. Now you’re ready for the next.

By Judy Sekinger October 14, 2020 in Communication, Dating, Lifestyle, Love, Responsibility, Sex No Comments

Covid Dating?

Walk the dog though the park or scroll on-line , and you may meet someone that catches your eye….ZING! It’s certainly possible to meet a few times while keeping your distance, just to see if there’s chemistry between you two. This is really all you should be doing during your first meet-up. Within 1-2 meet-ups you should discuss distancing and know…. And if there’s a connection then go ahead and begin connecting. Humans are made for intimacy and partnerships. You got this!!

By Judy Sekinger October 2, 2020 in Cheating, Communication, Dating, Lifestyle, Love, Mental Health, Responsibility, Sex No Comments

Seven Types of Orgasms

I love a good talk show while driving, and I’ll share a few fav’s sometime. I was surprised to understand that there are seven, YES 7!!!, types of orgasms for women. 🙂 WooHoo we hit the jackpot. Ever notice how some O’s are more intense than others? Well, here’s the menu: Clitorial, Nipple, G-Spot, The Anal, Urethral, A-Spot, and Vaginal. Guys, just because your gal didn’t react, #screamwithdelight, doesn’t mean she isn’t pleasured and satisfied.

By Judy Sekinger October 2, 2020 in Arguing, Breakups, Cheating, Communication, Dating, Lifestyle, Love, Sex No Comments

Perfectly Perfect

New date coming up gals? A great way to feel comfortable is to dress comfortable and wear what you like. Stiletto’s? Hell yeah if you can walk the walk, but don’t wear them on a first date if you’ll be hunched over with sore feet in the first hour. Be yourself, dress like yourself, and enjoy yourself. You’ll be perfectly perfect. And if the spark isn’t there, that’s okay….there’s nothing you can do to create true chemistry. On to the next date….for both of you.

By Judy Sekinger August 25, 2020 in Sex No Comments

I’ll touch that! Great for your mind and body. If you don’t have anyone special in your life at the moment, love yourself.

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