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By Judy Sekinger August 15, 2021 in Breakups, Closure, Communication, Dating, Lifestyle, Love, Mental Health, Relationship, Responsibility, Uncategorized, Values No Comments

Another Breakup?

So…you went through another relationship, ugh.  #breakup  No matter who called this shot, this is a good thing because now you can have the opportunity to find the right person to include in your life. You were probably matched incorrectly, meaning that you weren’t a match from the beginning. This is why we date, to get to know someone’s values and our intimacy stages with them.   If there isn’t an intimate bonding in different ways, then there won’t be a happy, healthy relationship. While dating, you need to spend as

By Judy Sekinger August 3, 2021 in Uncategorized No Comments

Date with low expectations

When you begin dating someone, and always on the first few dates, enjoy your time together, without expecting anything more than being treated nicely and with respect.  This suggestion is for both people involved. Here is why:  We are just getting to know each other at this stage.  It’s too soon to expect any type of next date or commitment, so enjoy and focus on one another.  You’re not at a career interview, you’re with a new acquaintance…or more! How this will help: You will naturally be less nervous, more

By Judy Sekinger June 23, 2021 in Communication, Dating, Goals, Lifestyle, Relationship, Responsibility, Uncategorized No Comments

Most People Are Dating Blind….Don’t!

Through personal dating and relationship experience, research, (yes, directly with people) and development, I now have the 6 week session of dating information which will add value to your dating life and help you dodge a big bullet later on in your life. This is designed to get you ready for the time, unexpected or expected, that you bump into your Match.  You gotta be ready! After this 6 week dating for a relationship course, you will be less shy, have naturally more self dating confidence, and be less weary

By Judy Sekinger May 13, 2021 in Communication, Dating, Foreplay, Lifestyle, Love, Relationship, Sex, Uncategorized No Comments

Let’s Marvin Gaye & Get It On

Grab your sweetie pie by the waste and do an unexpected twirl around the kitchen while you’re cooking together and listening to this innocently, romantic song by Charlie Puth & Meghan Trainor! What a great way to attract your partners attention and forget about life’s pressures, or whatever has delayed our intimacy in our relationships. Go ahead, put on the vinyl, and feel the magic!

By Judy Sekinger April 14, 2021 in Uncategorized No Comments

Men wear the pants, women control the zipper

Ladies: A man truly in love will let almost nothing stop him from being with you. You will never have to guess if someone is into you. If you do, it’s either because it’s too early to tell or because he just plain isn’t. Don’t keep being so available…live your life. Men:  You can control the zipper, too.  She’s not responsive enough?  Hey, it’s too early, or she just may not be feeling it.…meaning you. Either way, don’t sell your self short and certainly don’t play games.  Guaranteed , that you’ll

By Judy Sekinger April 6, 2021 in Breakups, Communication, Dating, Goals, Lifestyle, Relationship, Responsibility, Uncategorized No Comments

Ball & Chain

In a relationship do you have a ball & chain or are YOU the ball & chain?  I see this happening many, many times in a relationship.  In the beginning stages of dating, usually both people begin the relationship with an independent life and attitude.  And as time goes on, one of the two people slowly makes sacrifices in their own life to spend more time with their new partner.  What happens?  Their daily routine follows their partners schedule, and before they know it, Voila!  Now, not only do they lose a sense

By Judy Sekinger March 14, 2021 in Communication, Dating, Foreplay, Lifestyle, Love, Mental Health, Relationship, Sex, Stress, Uncategorized No Comments

Is Sex 90% Mental?

Did you ever wonder why sex can be great one day, really great (!) another day, so-so (ok, I’ll take it) another day, and what’s happening to me another day?! My juju estimation is that sexual satisfaction #reachinganorgasm, is 90% mental, for both males and females.  Relaxation and chemistry can provide some really great romps in the hay.  Guys and gals this is why the drive home, or a walk with the dog, is so important after a long day of work.  And there’s a reason why foreplay can be

By Judy Sekinger January 17, 2021 in Communication, Dating, Goals, Lifestyle, Love, Relationship, Uncategorized No Comments

..before it’s too late

I didn’t really know what to write this morning, and nothing is fine by me.  Zella didn’t want to go for a walk….very rare.  So here I am humming to Desperado during my morning off routine: Desperado, why don’t you come to your senses? Come down from your fences, open the gate It may be rainin’, but there’s a rainbow above you You better let somebody love you Let somebody love you You better let somebody love you before it’s too late #Eagles    

By Judy Sekinger December 9, 2020 in Uncategorized No Comments

Frog or Prince?

What type of relationship do you want? Committed or just for immediate companionship? #sex #fun If it’s a committed relationship, you’ll need to decide if he’s the Frog or the Prince. If he’s the Frog, the quicker you break the relationship off, the better for both of you.  On to the next!  And the same goes for the guys. If you think he’s the Prince, then you’ll need to watch for signs that you are his Princess.  Remember, all is fair in love & war while dating. Signs that he’s

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