Date with low expectations

When you begin dating someone, and always on the first few dates, enjoy your time together, without expecting anything more than being treated nicely and with respect.  This suggestion is for both people involved.

Here is why:  We are just getting to know each other at this stage.  It’s too soon to expect any type of next date or commitment, so enjoy and focus on one another.  You’re not at a career interview, you’re with a new acquaintance…or more!

How this will help: You will naturally be less nervous, more relaxed and confident, which will bring out the best in you!

I follow this rule, making me much more confidently relaxed.  It’s mental but it really helps me keep the focus off of myself and onto the situation and the man. 🙂