Holiday with your Self

Notice I didn’t say Thanksgiving alone…..this isn’t a get the violin out moment.

People have many reasons for spending a holiday with themselves, and this doesn’t mean that you’re alone…you are with your self!  Take the day to do whatever you feel like doing.  Blast your favorite old tunes, workout, volunteer or help someone out with a task, get dressed and grab a delish bite for dinner!

Don’t play the poor me victim.

Everyone needs to learn to be by them selves.  Truly by them selves.   Being by your self may feel lonely, strange, empty at first, and then magically you’ll actually begin discovering strengths and weaknesses about your self that you never realized.  Many couples stay together because they’re afraid of this with your self stage and end in an even lonelier, unhappy marriage.

Most likely this is only temporary.  Alone on a regular basis?  Well, then you may want to speak with a professional to make appropriate changes in your life.

Love the one your with, your Self.