Men wear the pants, women control the zipper

Ladies: A man truly in love will let almost nothing stop him from being with you. You will never have to guess if someone is into you. If you do, it’s either because it’s too early to tell or because he just plain isn’t. Don’t keep being so available…live your life.

Men:  You can control the zipper, too.  She’s not responsive enough?  Hey, it’s too early, or she just may not be feeling it.…meaning you.

Either way, don’t sell your self short and certainly don’t play games.  Guaranteed , that you’ll have regrets later.

What to do?   Communication is the key here:  ” Hey, I find you attractive….wanna go for a coffee?”   or “Hey,  I’d like to get you know you a little better.  Would you like to bungee jump sometime with me?”  Yep, keep it light. 🙂   I realize it’s hard, because we are all a little bit shy at first.

There’s more dates in the field and you gotta figure out if this is a go, or a move forward.