I really don’t watch much TV, but I had it on last week from the nightly news to catch up on the beautiful people and country of Ukraine…and I am praying for their peace. A few hours later I walked by the TV and saw The Bachelor, and thought I should see what’s going on, well, because I’m kinda interested in the dating arena. Classic ending that I could’ve guessed and here’s why: Two women (of the three left) were very emotionally hurt because they slept with him before they
This one’s for the guys: Make your date feel comfortable and safe in the beginning of your courtship. This way she’ll be able to open up and be in her best feminine. Enjoy, and you can thank me later!
Ladies, the more a man likes you the slower he’ll move forward. Why? He moves forward with a relationship more carefully because he has something important to lose….you! This slower progression probably means that he’s very interested in you in a serious way. Be patient and enjoy.
Never make your partner an option. If you do, they’ll show you how many options they have.
Ladies, before you’ve met in person, and if he’s treating you like the stranger that you are, there should be no kissy face emoji, love texting, texting how beautiful that you are, etc. There should be no flirtation. If he is, then he’s a fake. There should be no show or illusion of intimacy You’ve not met yet and there is no chemistry, no concrete commonality, or true attraction. He should be polite and want to meet with you, be in the moment, and experience the person that you are.
Your partner really needs to feel needed. Why? Because it’s a great feeling for them and your partner will feel more attraction for you! So ladies (or men), ask for some help. “Hey, can you pump my bicycle tire….pleeeease? I can’t get the cap off the valve.” This is the one time it’s OK to fake it ladies. 🙂
This is in a first date courting situation: A high value man who has empathy will understand that after a date, IF the woman likes him, that she’ll be worried that he doesn’t like her if she doesn’t hear from him. The high value man won’t want the woman to worry. Also, a high value man will text first if he’s a gentleman and was raised correctly. Is he a high value man?
Ladies, stay in your feminine….this shows that you’re very strong. A woman who is only in her masculine is probably very weak, and insecure, putting up barriers, stating that she doesn’t need a man. Of course she needs a man. A man likes a feminine woman. He will like you!
Okay, so when you first meet someone you’re considering romantically…especially if you haven’t met in person: DON’T spend time texting to try and get to know them. DO text to plan a time to meet. That’s it, done… until you meet. DON’T have a dinner date first, do a coffee shop, an ice cream walking around (watching how good they can use that tongue), or a happy hour. If you feel like you want to get to know them a little more before you meet, then speak on the phone.
So…you went through another relationship, ugh. #breakup No matter who called this shot, this is a good thing because now you can have the opportunity to find the right person to include in your life. You were probably matched incorrectly, meaning that you weren’t a match from the beginning. This is why we date, to get to know someone’s values and our intimacy stages with them. If there isn’t an intimate bonding in different ways, then there won’t be a happy, healthy relationship. While dating, you need to spend as
