Okay, so when you first meet someone you’re considering romantically…especially if you haven’t met in person: DON’T spend time texting to try and get to know them. DO text to plan a time to meet. That’s it, done… until you meet. DON’T have a dinner date first, do a coffee shop, an ice cream walking around (watching how good they can use that tongue), or a happy hour. If you feel like you want to get to know them a little more before you meet, then speak on the phone.
So…you went through another relationship, ugh. #breakup No matter who called this shot, this is a good thing because now you can have the opportunity to find the right person to include in your life. You were probably matched incorrectly, meaning that you weren’t a match from the beginning. This is why we date, to get to know someone’s values and our intimacy stages with them. If there isn’t an intimate bonding in different ways, then there won’t be a happy, healthy relationship. While dating, you need to spend as
Did you know?…. that women in their 40’s and 50’s have more, and easier, orgasms than in their earlier years. Yep. So now I’m wondering why so many men ruin a relationship or marriage to be with a younger woman, and then hit the button and repeat. They must not have the ability to connect intimately on all four levels of intimacy. Regardless, ladies enjoy!!! And guys, hang on to your honey, it’s only getting better.
Ladies, don’t worry about your date slowing down on his “jive” after awhile, and here’s why! Men typically talk more during the period of the first few dates than ever. They are telling you all about themselves, kind of like discussing their resume of “who they are by sharing what they think, feel, and value. Once a man gets the job (you) and he is exclusive, there’s no longer any reason to keep talking.” Talking has served it’s purpose. Now that they know each other….and this is after a few
Ladies, After a few weeks of dating, you don’t hear from him anymore. OMG, why? Probably because he gave you some good lip service and won’t pull through with his promises. You didn’t hear from him…there’s your answer. Another reason why you shouldn’t be intimate for 2-3 months. #values Protect yourself with your boundaries.
So, you’ve been dating a little while and now you’re wondering what your dates’ intentions are in regards to your dating thing. I’m calling this a thing because we don’t know what this dating situation is yet. I always say that honesty is the best policy, and probably the best thing to do is go ahead and ask: “Hey ???, we’ve been going out awhile now, and I’ve been having a nice time hanging out with you (and everything). I was just wondering how you feel about ‘us’ so far
Porn has nothing to do with (adult) sex ed, it’s fiction…..not to be confused with the sexual reality with a partner. Something to remember in our everyday sexual life, but there nothing wrong with a little fiction.
Remember: “I miss you” doesn’t mean “I choose you”
“I cannot find a person (man or woman) that respects me! What’s wrong with people in todays world?” I hear this from both men and women, so I use the phrase “person”. The tough truth is that you attract this type of person because, most likely, you don’t respect yourself and they pick up on this. Yep, you’re with this person and anyone that respects themselves would simply walk away, not stay and wonder why…..you’re responsible for yourself. Set your criteria, (#values) don’t waiver, but your actions have to follow
Ever wonder why you keep thinking about your ex all the time…those fond memories? Our common sense protective instincts that usually protect and serve us in a physical trauma aren’t used when your heart is broken… When your heart is broken your thoughts go down a different path, heart ache causes such dramatic emotional pain, and even when we are given a very logical reason why that person broke up with us (damn it!) we make up mysteries and other theories when there are none. We cannot trust what
