I really don’t watch much TV, but I had it on last week from the nightly news to catch up on the beautiful people and country of Ukraine…and I am praying for their peace. A few hours later I walked by the TV and saw The Bachelor, and thought I should see what’s going on, well, because I’m kinda interested in the dating arena. Classic ending that I could’ve guessed and here’s why: Two women (of the three left) were very emotionally hurt because they slept with him before they
Yep, yes, absolutely!
Ladies, before you’ve met in person, and if he’s treating you like the stranger that you are, there should be no kissy face emoji, love texting, texting how beautiful that you are, etc. There should be no flirtation. If he is, then he’s a fake. There should be no show or illusion of intimacy You’ve not met yet and there is no chemistry, no concrete commonality, or true attraction. He should be polite and want to meet with you, be in the moment, and experience the person that you are.
This is in a first date courting situation: A high value man who has empathy will understand that after a date, IF the woman likes him, that she’ll be worried that he doesn’t like her if she doesn’t hear from him. The high value man won’t want the woman to worry. Also, a high value man will text first if he’s a gentleman and was raised correctly. Is he a high value man?
Did you know?…. that women in their 40’s and 50’s have more, and easier, orgasms than in their earlier years. Yep. So now I’m wondering why so many men ruin a relationship or marriage to be with a younger woman, and then hit the button and repeat. They must not have the ability to connect intimately on all four levels of intimacy. Regardless, ladies enjoy!!! And guys, hang on to your honey, it’s only getting better.
Ladies, don’t worry about your date slowing down on his “jive” after awhile, and here’s why! Men typically talk more during the period of the first few dates than ever. They are telling you all about themselves, kind of like discussing their resume of “who they are by sharing what they think, feel, and value. Once a man gets the job (you) and he is exclusive, there’s no longer any reason to keep talking.” Talking has served it’s purpose. Now that they know each other….and this is after a few
Ladies, After a few weeks of dating, you don’t hear from him anymore. OMG, why? Probably because he gave you some good lip service and won’t pull through with his promises. You didn’t hear from him…there’s your answer. Another reason why you shouldn’t be intimate for 2-3 months. #values Protect yourself with your boundaries.
Ladies, and I mean married, single, as well as in a relationship: Give the guy a break! Men a women’s minds have different conceptions of love, lust, and relationship communications. Your man isn’t perfect and either are you. Guys are guys, and quite frankly, (generally speaking) I find their simple to the point mind refreshing. Simply enjoy the view when they’re flipping the meat on the grill. So if you’re expecting a fairytale Valentine’s Day, birthday celebration, or life with your man, you may want to get some basic professional
