I really don’t watch much TV, but I had it on last week from the nightly news to catch up on the beautiful people and country of Ukraine…and I am praying for their peace. A few hours later I walked by the TV and saw The Bachelor, and thought I should see what’s going on, well, because I’m kinda interested in the dating arena. Classic ending that I could’ve guessed and here’s why: Two women (of the three left) were very emotionally hurt because they slept with him before they
Ladies, the more a man likes you the slower he’ll move forward. Why? He moves forward with a relationship more carefully because he has something important to lose….you! This slower progression probably means that he’s very interested in you in a serious way. Be patient and enjoy.
Yep, yes, absolutely!
Don’t do it.
Never make your partner an option. If you do, they’ll show you how many options they have.
Ladies, before you’ve met in person, and if he’s treating you like the stranger that you are, there should be no kissy face emoji, love texting, texting how beautiful that you are, etc. There should be no flirtation. If he is, then he’s a fake. There should be no show or illusion of intimacy You’ve not met yet and there is no chemistry, no concrete commonality, or true attraction. He should be polite and want to meet with you, be in the moment, and experience the person that you are.
This is in a first date courting situation: A high value man who has empathy will understand that after a date, IF the woman likes him, that she’ll be worried that he doesn’t like her if she doesn’t hear from him. The high value man won’t want the woman to worry. Also, a high value man will text first if he’s a gentleman and was raised correctly. Is he a high value man?
So…you went through another relationship, ugh. #breakup No matter who called this shot, this is a good thing because now you can have the opportunity to find the right person to include in your life. You were probably matched incorrectly, meaning that you weren’t a match from the beginning. This is why we date, to get to know someone’s values and our intimacy stages with them. If there isn’t an intimate bonding in different ways, then there won’t be a happy, healthy relationship. While dating, you need to spend as
Photo by @mileu Your partner is more likely to orgasm when they feel safe, trusted, and comfortable with themselves.
Ladies, don’t worry about your date slowing down on his “jive” after awhile, and here’s why! Men typically talk more during the period of the first few dates than ever. They are telling you all about themselves, kind of like discussing their resume of “who they are by sharing what they think, feel, and value. Once a man gets the job (you) and he is exclusive, there’s no longer any reason to keep talking.” Talking has served it’s purpose. Now that they know each other….and this is after a few
