The Bachelor: My take, because you can’t un-phuck them.

I really don’t watch much TV, but I had it on last week from the nightly news to catch up on the beautiful people and country of Ukraine…and I am praying for their peace.

A few hours later I walked by the TV and saw The Bachelor, and thought I should see what’s going on, well, because I’m kinda interested in the dating arena.

Classic ending that I could’ve guessed and here’s why:

  • Two women (of  the three left) were very emotionally hurt because they slept with him before they really knew where he mentally was coming from, and how he treats a woman.  Had these two women not slept with him, the abrupt ‘break-off’ that he made, would have been much easier for these two women to move forward from this guy.
  • The third woman, asked the right question before getting intimate: Have you slept with any of these women?  So she decided to move away from this man (if you would call him a man).  And, she was disgusted and confused and was not about to be clustered among them.
  • On the other hand, and of course, who does he want?  The woman that would not sleep with him because now she leveled herself higher by keeping her BOUNDARIES.  This is a classic male primal move.

Women have been trading sex for love for thousands of years.  It’s primal and women really don’t know that they are doing this.

Well, tonight it appears the he and number three have reunited outside of The Bachelor show and working things out.  Good for them….I guess.

This is a classic dating scenario.  Something I teach: don’t get intimate for about 2 – 3 months until you know them better, because you can’t un-phuck them.

Judy Sekinger
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