Why women want the “good guy”, but…..

All women want the nice, good guy.  And I say all women, because who wants to be treated like crap by the bad guy?  Respectfully, no one in their right mind.

Instinctually, women are attracted to the protector, the guy that will physically, and hopefully, be able to protect the female and the family, and not coward the other way leaving the family to take on it’s attacker in the jungle.  I have my personal opinion about the guy that comes in strong beating his chest like the amazon man….that’s a whole other conversation with a trained therapist, lol.

So men, step up!  You don’t have to be the biggest man, or the smartest man.  What you do need are skills and the mindset to protect.  So when you meet the ladies drop the hint that you are a protector.  Tell her you have a black belt, or whatever, but thought a good idea to wear it on the next date….great pickup line!  (Opened the door for a date and a protector, double win!)  Open the doors, car and public, which you should be doing anyway.  By staying behind her, this shows a sense of protection.  Heck, my Ridgeback almost always walks behind me in protection mode.  And ladies, you have a responsibility to the man to be a good co-protector if the situation arises.

Important to find the right partner in life?  You betcha!